In marriage, unity isn’t just about schedules—it’s about speech. When your home is in a storm, say, “Get on through that storm,” and steer the atmosphere with blessing, not frustration. James 3 reminds us that a small tongue can turn a big ship, so choose to echo what God says over your spouse and your future: “Everywhere I go, people go out of their way…to be kind to me,” and yes—start in your own house. Couples, don’t be “anointed but immature”—powerful in public and careless in private. Say, “Speak the blessing,” and watch God rebuild peace, honor, and joy right where you live.